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OBNOXIOUS 09, 2006

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September 21, 2006

Monica makes a new milestone.  Once a teen sensation, Monica is now a very mature young lady celebrating over a decade in the music business and releasing her new album " The Makings of Me ."  The resurrection of the young girl that became a star in 1995 at 15-years-old, " Don't Take it Personal (Just One of dem Days)" and " Before You Walk out of My Life ."  Born Monica Denise Arnold , is now 26 and is making moves like a veteran in the music industry.  I got a chance to catch up with her while test driving a 2007 Lincoln Navigator, who sponsored a private concert and release party for the Georgia Peach.    The sexy caramel complexioned young lady handled the over size SUV with ease as we engaged in a deep conversation.    Monica explained to me emphatically that her son is the number one priority in her life right now and that music is second.

The singing sensation is focused and very clear about her life and plans now than she has ever been before.  "I am not one of those artist that sell 20 million albums, but I do have a consistent fan base,"   Monica explained.  "A lot of my people have followed me since I started at 13-years-old." 

Monica's life has been no crystal stairs.    Young but full of wisdom, Monica talked like she has been here before, as Big Momma would say.  "I have made a great deal of sacrifices to get here," Monica explained.  All of the experiences makes her the woman she is today and appreciative of her journey.  The young mother gets a great deal of help from her mother, who also her manager; with taking care of her new grandson.  Much needed assistance allows Monica the opportunity to balance career and child well.  Monica explained that she has to have people around her that she can trust.    Not always was singing her forte, she laughed about her brief modeling career.  "I tried it and I hated it," Monica said laughing.  "Modeling was not a good experience for me."  Some women do not like being controlled and Monica was not happy having to wear garments she did not pick out nor the standing or posing for long periods of time.

Reality television producers have come knocking on Monica's door, only to find that a grown lady was the one to answer.    The songbird declined due to the respect she has for her family and their privacy.  "It would have been too much," Monica declared.  "They would have taken all of my family's privacy away, like those shows do."  Monica was cleaver enough to avoid sharing what networks had approached her, but she did say that she is her father's only daughter and that it has a very special meaning and family is more important to her than money.  Due to the industry having changed so much and a number of new competitors, but Monica is confidant that she can hold her own.  She even went on to share with me that she likes Kiesha Cole .  MTV's Video Music Awards was the first major appearance Monica had made in a long time.  On that night she looked amazing and wore a comeback smile all night.  "I enjoyed the evening so much," Monica said smiling.  "I like Beyonce and OK-GO's performances the best.  Those guys dancing on the treadmills were the bomb." 

Monica was in total control of this comeback album and she did not mind calling the shots.  Recording the majority of the project while six months pregnant, Monica kept the group working on her album small and intimate.  "I did not want anyone around me that smoked or did drugs working with me," Monica shared.  "I cannot work with anyone that I do not respect."  Seven years since that horrible day when she witnessed her boyfriend, Javen commit suicide right in front of her.  Now, after seven years, she has finally felt the release to continue her craft and mover forward in her life.  Never seeking any mental help to process the horrific experience she sought after the Lord and became extremely spiritual.  Seeking God and writing a song called " After the Storm ," gave her the mental help she needed to move forward with her life.  With that drama aside, she now celebrates a new soulful album.  It is a classic Monica sound that she offers her fans, " The Makings of Me " It's basically saying it's a testament to the fact that this is a musical diary.  It's just simply about the last decade of my life.  We talk about a lot of different things on the album as far as things that I've been through; different situations.  And we just take a walk through that last 10 years of my life up until this point," she explained.

" Everytime Tha Beat Drop ," is laced with a heavier beat than we are used to from Monica .  It is a nice departure from the other ballads and mid-temp offerings on the album.  Monica takes you to the ATL with Dem Franchize Boyz and Jermaine Dupri .  Atlanta artist have such a bond that is increditable how they support each other and enjoy the others success.  Signature Monica is exemplified in her ballad " A Dozen Roses ," This track samples Curtis Mayfield's " The Making of You ," which resulted in influencing the title of the album.  "After we did the song, Missy decided to use that sample on her own.  She already decided that would be the track that we would sing over and do the record around," Monica shared with me.  "And once bringing it home, Clive Davis listened to it over and over and he was like I have the answer, The Makings of Me.  And I think that hook is standing out a lot." 

Always true to my Obnoxious form.  Monica had to open up to me about the very sexy photo on the album cover.    "I wanted to do something grown and sexy," Monica said smiling.  "It is sexy, but not too much to me and I love the photo of me topless holding my son.  My mom had some problems with the cover," she added.  Monica wanted sexy and she by all means accomplished it.  The cover pops right out you because we have never seen Monica like this before.  Not sure if she will tour, but she is out promoting the new CD heavily.    However, touring is not out of the question for the new mother, it just has to be the right circumstances for her to go on the road. 

Joseph "Rev. Run" Simmons and his family held a small hospital room funeral for his daughter Victoria Anne Simmons, who died a short time after being born in Ridgewood, New Jersey.  The rapper told reporters:  "Right there in the hospital room, Bishop E. Bernard Jordan prayed over the baby and gave a sermon.  The funeral director came, too.  That's how we did it.  We prayed for acceptance.  It's painful, okay?  But you don't get mad at God.  Acceptance is purifying."  Run , a founding member of the legendary rap group Run-DMC , and his wife, Justine, married in 1994, and have two sons Daniel, known as Diggy and Russell II, who they call Russy.    Run's three older children, Vanessa, Angela, and Joseph Jr., are from a previous relationship.  Do not forget to catch the family's reality series, " Run's House ," followed the early months of Justine's pregnancy during its recently wrapped season.

BET's Big Tigger is not playing, he recently turned down an offer to continue hosting the morning show at New York's WWPR 105.1 FM because he found the money they were offering an insult.  "I know what I'm worth, and I know what a morning show is worth to a station," he told reporters.  "We couldn't agree on what that was.  There were no hard feelings.  I love Power-105.  I love Helen Little, program director.  It just didn't work out."  Tigger bounced from the temporary position in late summer, leaving co-hosts Egypt and Donnell Rawlins to steer the ship until a permanent replacement is found for fired jock, Star.  Big Tigger began his radio career in 1994 and was hired by Clear Channel in 2003 to help launch Power-105 as a hip hop rival to WOHT (97.1 FM).  After Star's abrupt departure this year, the media company called on Tigger and another hip hop radio veteran, Egypt to fill-in on a temporary basis.  "We had never worked together," said Tigger .  "We had to put a show together on the fly, following someone who had done as well in the ratings as Star.  Under those circumstances, I thought what we did was pretty impressive.    We talked about issues, we had jokes, and we played music.  It wasn't tame, it wasn't too racey.  Kids could listen.  It had balance.  I don't hear a lot of that on New York radio these days."  Some money is better than no money I thought, but I guess not to Tigger.
What is up with Busta Rhymes ?  Something seriously has changed about this guy; he is not the cool exocentric rapper that he once was.  Busta now has a horrible disposition and a wanna-be-gagster image that is not working.  Busta is continuing to stay in the news these days for all the wrong reasons.    The rapper reportedly cancelled a concert at the last minute for the second time in two years.  According to the Sydney Morning Herald , Rhymes, born Trevor Tahiem Smith, Jr. was scheduled to perform at the Sydney Entertainment Center, but backed out of the appearance because he wanted more money and business class for his entire entourage and five star accommodations.  The promoter, PDA Touring, released a statement saying that "outrageous demands on the eve of the departure by Busta Ryhmes' management prompted the concert to be cancelled.  According to sources close to Rhymes say, he never intended to perform in Sydney, because the tour schedule on his official website noted that he was due to open for Mariah Carey on the same night in   Oakland, California.  Sounds like a serious case of Deja-vu, in 2004 Busta was due to perform in Sydney, but cancelled the gig after members of his entourage were detained for several hours at Sydney Airport due to immigration issues.  Busta needs to get a reality check real quick or he is going to loose the fans he once had.  Seems he might not have been considered hard enough thus, the cause of his recent common thug behavior.  Get over it already and be yourself Trevor because this is not going to get it.
Divas Raising Hell ... Star Jones has given the National Enquirer an ultimatum: either admit that a story calling her marriage a "sham" is untrue, or prepare to do battle in court.  The former attorney and former talk show co-host is very sensitive these days.  Bob Chapman, the high-profile attorney who represents Star and Al, told reporters that the Enquirer's story that Al is gay and marriage is falling apart is not true.    Chapman insists, "They are happily married," adding that Star is emotional and stressed out over the story.  The article in question featured a headline " Star Jones' Husband Walks Out !"  In a demand letter to the Enquirer , Chapman wrote the article was false and defamatory and has caused them massive damage.  The letter also stated:  "You have also chosen to state that Mr. Reynolds is gay.  While Mr. and Mrs. Reynolds believe that everyone should be free to make their own choice concerning sexual preference and that there is nothing wrong with being gay, you nave nonetheless chosen to falsely state that Mr. Reynolds is gay."    Chapman also stated that the Enquirer as done grave damage to their reputations, both publicly and privately.  Star's marriage has cost her everything; her career, her reputation, and her self-respect.  The once I am so happy to be single and dating heavy set, I got it going on Diva has lost weight and turned into a woman that feels she has to defend herself against alleged lies.  It was a well known fact that Al Reynolds was said to have been bi-sexual prior to his marriage to Star .  When she was asked about her then husband-to-be she said he was honest with her about his sexual past and she was open with him about her past as well.    Why does this remind you of Terry McMillian and Jonathan Plummer
Naomi Campbell is not going to be satisfied until she is in jail.  The troubled supermodel was threatened with arrest by a New York judge after she failed to make a court date regarding the alleged attack on her housekeeper.  Judge James Gibbons of the Manhattan Criminal Court told Campbell's attorney David Breitbafart that he'll issue a bench warrant for the model's arrest if she missed her next court date on November 15.  As you may recall the 36-year-old catwalk queen is charged with second-degree assault and faces up to seven years in prison for allegedly throwing a cell phone at her housekeeper, Ana Scolavino, causing a head injury that required four stitches.  Breitbart attempted to explain Campbell's absence to the judge privately, but Judge Gibbons Denied the request and insisted he speak on the record.  "The press is all over this girl.  There are over 100 cameramen outside this courthouse," Breitbart explained, before Judge Gibbons interrupted him with:  "They have a right to be here."  The judge then turned to the prosecutor and asked incredulously, "The defendant failed to appear today and you are not asking for a bench warrant?"    "Yes," replied Assistant District Attorney Christian Browne who told the judge that a possible plea deal was still being worked out.  Well, Naomi is going to have to get her tail in gear real fast, because this Judge Gibbons seems to be ready to throw the book at the diva.  Clearly there are some serious physiological issues and Naomi could use a few good visits on someone's couch. 
Apparently, Eva Longoria and Tony Parker were not as in love as they seemed to be in the fairy tale relationship they had for a little over a year.  According to People Magazine , the couple has called it quits due to distance and demanding careers.  "They did break up.  It's amicable," a source told the magazine, adding, "They are talking and trying to figure the best course of action for their future.  They are trying to work things out."  Eva did not break her silence during recent interviews to plug the new season premiere of the show she stars in on ABC, " Desperate Housewives ," various talk show hosts riddled her with questions about Parker, a guard with the San Antonio Spurs .  But sources say that things have been rocky from the start.  The distance and demanding careers finally caused the break.  In an earlier statement issued by Longoria's rep Liza Anderson, she stated, " Eva and Tony are going through a very difficult time right now, just like any other couple with extremely demanding careers."  However, Parkers people are saying the reports about the breakup are not true.  No happily ever after ending to this fairy tell-romance.  Come on how long did you think they were going to make it.  They were so cute together they almost made you want to throw up, and to add insult to injury they met in the locker room after a Spurs game.  Now how dreamy is that, but no one stopped to think it might have been a nightmare. 

According to my " Street Committee "... Terrell Owens is rumored to have attempted to committee suicide, but he might have found something to live for in   Sanaa Lathan T.O.'s publicist, Kim Etheridge said that Sanaa was part of T.O.'s entourage last summer when he arrived to training camp in Oxnard, California.  Not sure if he really tried to take his life or not, but allegedly he suffers form depression.  A source close to the professional athlete would not tell me what causes him to go into deep depression, but she was aware of some serious personal issues that he as not come to terms with that may have caused him to want to end it all.

Picture of Beyonce and Jay-Z leaving and after party for his concert at London's royal Albert Hall landed in my in-box, with captions referring to her as drunk.    She did appear to be a little off center and depending heavily on her old man to hold her up.  And the other photos paparazzi caught are of Jay-Z sitting on the side of pool with is legs in the water and Beyonce in between them.  No, the rumors are not true she was not doing anything unseemly in public. 

Are You Ready For This!!!   Everyone is talking about Whitney Houston divorcing Bobby Brown due to his rekindled relationship with Karrien "Superhead" Steffans, but it might be due to Whitney finding someone else.  Allegedly Whitney Houston and Bishop Eddie Long are somehow involved with each other.  According to reports of a woman close to Whitney , the Bishop had been involved in a close relationship during Whitney's rehab.  Eddie Long served as a spiritual counselor to Whitney , but they have allegedly taken some weekend retreats that according to the source were far more than spiritual. 

Spike Lee is directing a series of TV spots for Dwayne Wade's new shoe, the Wade 1.3. Shot documentary style, the ads are designed to reveal Wade's inner thoughts, Lee's vision is to show an insightful, intimate look a the real person inside the jersey while showcasing his new Converse WADE 1.3 signature shoe.  The commercials will begin airing in late October.  Well, I am not impressed.  Recently I tried to talk to the world champ to only get the cold shoulder due to his being so taken with two half dressed sluts that were grinning in his face and quickly exchanging numbers.  After he got the two girls numbers locked into his cell he told me he was sorry and did not know I was press, but he was late for the bus and would get with me next time.  Not sure it will be a next time.  Dwayne is surely no Kobe .  Speaking of basketball, Tracy McGrady finally gave the mother of this two children his last name.    That is right the couple recently wed this summer in Los Cabos, Mexico (click here to see the photos http://www.oursoiree.net/McGrady2/index.html)

Author Kevin Powell is not all that he is cracked up to be.  " The Real World " star that was a let go form Vibe Magazine is running for Congress and is said to be a real disappointment.    Seems the writer planned a clean up trip with a group of college students in New Orleans and did not have provisions for the students.  Bad accommodations and lack of food caused tempers to flair.  According to one of the organizers that worked with Powell on the trip, he stayed in his hotel room and only came out for photo opportunities and when confronted about the lake of provisions for the students he responded that it was not his problem and the whole trip was nothing more than a publicity stunt.  Powell was not able to be reached by deadline.  Not sure if we need another representative like this in Congress.  Hats off to my boy Corey Reese from   Atlanta, Georgia, who is in Cosmopolitan Magazine this month.  Ladies vote for this cool Kat so he can afford to buy a shirt.